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The ultimate guide to bat mitzvah & bridesmaids hairstyling

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Hairstyling for bat mitzvah girls, young bridesmaids and flower girls is a wonderful way to create a special look for these little cuties. 

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The age-appropriateness of the hairstyle, the young lady’s level of maturity and temperament and length of hair - all together -determine whether you should invest the time and effort in styling the bat mitzvah/bridesmaid's hair.  


While even infants can wear a cute headband; once these cuties can walk on their own, you can begin to think about styling their hair, just keep these guidelines in mind:
Let the young lady pick the hairstyle or at least have a say in what she wants – within reason.

Go with the flow - don’t make the hairstyling process feel like a punishment.

Be open to the fact that young girls may not want any style on the big day or will remove the hairstyle just before the simcha, or while walking down the aisle or exactly at the moment the photographer is about to take a photo.

 The hairstyle must suit the face and body build of the young lady.

Plan a style that can be easily undone or pinned up if it falls or the young lady no longer wants to wear it.


Any length of hair can styled.  Even short hair can be styled with simple braids or hair coils, using colorful rubber bands or clips to hold the ends in place.

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Never create top-heavy or bottom-heavy hairstyles or styles that pull the hair back too severely.

Make sure they can jump, dance and move freely in their style.  I always do the jump up and down test to ensure no hairs can get caught in zippers or sleeves.

Braids, simple or complicated, are always in style for bridesmaids of all ages.

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A gentle sprinkle of glitter (make sure our cutie closes her eyes and then give the hair a light dusting of hairspray and then gently sprinkle on glitter, then blow off the excess) is a great way to add a bit of sparkle to a simple style without the fuss of pins, especially for young bridesmaids.

The most versatile hairstyle for nearly any length of hair is a half up and half down hairstyle and has the added value of keeping the young lady’s hair from falling all over her face.               

Flowers, pins and other hair accessories – can be an easy way to dress up a simple style or can be a pain if they fall out or stick someone.  Look for hair accessories that are easy to attach and stay put or consider gluing (with special glue) flat accessories to the hair! 

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Dressing the bride: A guide to white weddings dresses, veils, nose rings and everything in between

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And the bride wore white.  Whose bright idea was that?

Tell me - whose bright idea was it to dress a bride all in white and then send her into a room full of people milling about (at the kabalat panim) eating sushi with soy sauce, spaghetti dripping with tomato sauce and mini kababs swimming in oil?  Oh and did I forget to mention the infamous red wine she will sip under the chuppah?  

Seriously, only a man would have thought that white could be a good color for a bride.  Actually it could be - if she is wearing a white dress she can wash and wear. Unfortunately during the last one hundred years or so - wedding gowns have been made of lace, silk, chiffon, satin and a host of other materials that are allergic to water and attract stains like kids to candy.  So where does this custom of the bride wearing white come from?

Let’s start with girls of marriageable age wearing white during the time of the Beit Hamikdash.  In the Taanis 26B, Raban Shimon Ben Gamliel said: ‘There are no more joyous days for Israel than Tu B'Av (the 15th of Av) and Yom Kippur, on these days the (unmarried) girls in Jerusalem would borrow dresses of white, so no one would be embarrassed that they didn't have a dress, and go out to the vineyards and dance.'  The Gemara continues by urging the unmarried young men: ‘Young man, go out and see who you choose'. Meaning: choose a bride.

As a result of the Gemara quote, Tu B'Av (along with Lag B’Omer) are the busiest wedding days on the Jewish calendar.  

While no one marries on Yom Kippur, many of the “themes” of Yom Kippur are found in wedding ceremony.  Firstly, for the bride and groom, their wedding day is considered a Yom Kippur Katan, a mini Yom Kippur.  Just as Yom Kippur is a day of fasting and an opportunity to begin the new year with a fresh start; many brides and grooms fast on their wedding day, as this is their shared opportunity to begin their lives anew.  Secondly, many grooms wear a kitel under the Chuppah, another symbol of Yom Kippur.

In past centuries and around the world, white was not considered a suitable bridal color.  So when did white become the bridal color of choice?  It seems that we can blame Queen Victoria of England for that fashion challenge; the queen chose to marry Prince Albert decked out all in white, back in 1840.  Since then, white has become the color associated with purity and innocence.  So white it is!


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Forget the Gown - take a look at the Bridal Accessory List!  

Today the bridal dress is the undisputed focal point of the bride's attire, however during biblical times the bridal accessories took precedence. And the bridal accessory list was astounding!

Take a look at this list, from Yishi'yahu Perek 3:18 - 24.  While the passage is actually meant as a reproof to the Jews living in ancient Israel; the list of bridal accessories talks volumes as to what brides wore on their special day.  The list includes: anklets, tiaras, necklaces, earrings, bracelets, scarves, bonnets, armbands, belts, perfume boxes, amulets, rings, nose ornaments, cloaks, mantles, gowns, handbags, gauze, fine linen, hoods and veils.




 Yishi’yahu Perek 3 יְשַׁעְיָהוּ
יח  בַּיּוֹם הַהוּא יָסִיר אֲדֹנָי, אֵת תִּפְאֶרֶת הָעֲכָסִים וְהַשְּׁבִיסִים--וְהַשַּׂהֲרֹנִים.
18 In that day the Lord will take away the bravery of their anklets, and the fillets, and the crescents;
יט  הַנְּטִפוֹת וְהַשֵּׁירוֹת, וְהָרְעָלוֹת.
19 the pendants, and the bracelets, and the veils;
כ  הַפְּאֵרִים וְהַצְּעָדוֹת וְהַקִּשֻּׁרִים, וּבָתֵּי הַנֶּפֶשׁ וְהַלְּחָשִׁים.
20 the headtires, and the armlets, and the sashes, and the corselets, and the amulets;
כא  הַטַּבָּעוֹת, וְנִזְמֵי הָאָף.
21 the rings, and the nose-jewels;
כב  הַמַּחֲלָצוֹת, וְהַמַּעֲטָפוֹת, וְהַמִּטְפָּחוֹת, וְהָחֲרִיטִים.
22 the aprons, and the mantelets, and the cloaks, and the girdles;
כג  וְהַגִּלְיֹנִים, וְהַסְּדִינִים, וְהַצְּנִיפוֹת, וְהָרְדִידִים.
23 and the gauze robes, and the fine linen, and the turbans, and the mantles.

With today's much abbreviated accessory list, it is interesting to note that it is easy to follow the custom of the bride removing all her jewelry before she walks to the chuppah.  The reason for her removing all her jewelry is to signify that the wedding ring, she will be given under the chuppah, is her most significant piece of jewelry.  (The bride usually replaces all her jewelry after the chuppah is over.)   

Once again the themes of Yom Kippur can be found here, as I have heard that the custom of the bride removing her jewelry (and perhaps also wearing white), mimics the way the Cohen Gadol used to wear only special white unadorned clothes when he did the most holy work of the year in the Beit Hamikdash on Yom Kippur.

Let’s not forget the Veil!
Veils have been part of the Jewish wedding experience, since Yitzchak married Rivka, the first bride mentioned in the Torah.  We don't know what she wore, but we do know that she wore a veil and she lowered it as she approached Yitzchak. 

Another Torah veil story comes from the "hard lesson" Yaakov learned when he thought he had married Rachel, but ended up with her sister Leah.  To avoid any future marriage mixups, the custom of the groom himself placing the veil on the bride (the Badeken ceremony) was born.  This custom is still practiced today.

There are so many customs and traditions surrounding the dressing of the bride and groom and the wedding ceremony itself that you can incorporate in your wedding ceremony.  Do you want more information on Jewish wedding customs and traditions?  Contact me today!

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The Myth of “I Never Wear Makeup”

“What kind of makeup look would you like to wear at the wedding?”

Through the years I have asked countless mothers of the bride and the groom this question and many times I have heard in response: “Oh, I never wear makeup, so whatever…”.  Wrong answer!  

I am here to stand up and say out loud that there are definitely times when every woman must wear makeup and a wedding is one of those times!


Go ahead and pamper yourself!

To say that every bride should wear makeup is a given; no matter how young, sweet and dewy-faced,  the bride needs to wear some makeup.  The facts are simple: the bride is (usually) decked out in a white dress and, at least for the first few hours, is surrounded by a white veil.  Many times even her flowers are white.  That all-white look alone can create a pale and washed-out appearance.

Now take into account the lovely brides who fast on the day of their weddings, the brides who are hyper-sensitive, the ones who are hyper-worried and the ones who are just incredibly nervous.  In most cases the veritable grocery list of wedding circumstances will conspire to produce a pale, washed-out look on any face.  The bride MUST wear makeup – at least a good warm base, a warm or pinkish blush and some lip and eye treatment and a lick of mascara. 

But this article is directed at all the other women of the bridal party, especially the MOTHERS of the BRIDE and the GROOM.

Makeup - lovely makeup!
I don't care if you NEVER wear makeup, I don't care if you didn't wear makeup for your own wedding and I don't care if you didn't wear makeup for your other sons'/daughters' weddings.  It is equally unimportant to me that the wedding is scheduled for the summer/winter rain/snow storm/midnight or noon; on a beach, on a mountain or in an over air-conditioned venue.  The mothers of the bride and groom MUST WEAR MAKEUP.  If you are curious, yes this is written in stone!

Let me explain why:  You must wear makeup for the sake of the symmetry of the wedding pictures.  ‘Symmetry’ you say?  Imagine a photograph showing half the people are wearing only white clothes head to foot and the other half are wearing clothing of all the colors of the rainbow.  The photo will look "off" - something will be not quite right - half the picture will look "alive" and the other half will look washed out.  

It's the same with makeup.  No matter what outfit and hairstyle a woman wears - a woman with makeup will look more awake, more vital and even younger!  Yes, I am talking about facial skin-appropriate makeup, not heavily rouged cheeks and liver-red lips on someone who should wear more muted colors.  

Note that I did not say age-appropriate makeup.  There is no such thing as age-appropriate makeup; except makeup on a 12 year old, who should never, ever, never wear makeup, except some blush and sparkles and only at her Bat Mitzvah party!

I have said time and again: makeup is the art of accentuating and concealingAccentuate the features you love and conceal the features you love less

What you love:
  • Create bright or dramatic eyes with dramatic eye shadows and eye liner if you love your eyes. 
  • Create powerful lips with a dark and dramatic lip color if you love your lips.

What you love less:
  • Create a soft eye look with muted earth-tone or blush colored eye shadow if you love your eyes less.
  • Create barely-there-lips with soft muted lip treatments if you love your lips less.  Keep in mind that if your lips are very narrow or thin, you can create a fuller lip look by using a lip pencil to draw your lip line a bit past your natural line and the fill them in with a same color lipstick!
  • Create warm, barely-there cheeks with a lightly dusted muted dusky-pink tone (stay away from harsh orange, red or brown tones) on your cheeks if your love your cheeks less.

What about you jewelry?
Don’t be afraid of your almost-final makeup look. Don'r worry about whether your eyes or lips look too dark.  The only way to really appreciate your finished makeup look is to see yourself fully dressed.  This means you must put on your dress, jewelry, wig or hat (if applicable).  Once you are fully dressed, don't just look in the mirror - take a picture to see how you look in the picture – this is what counts!

And while I am on the subject of pictures:  open your eyes a bit more than you are used to when you take pictures and please smile more than you usually do.  

Remember: A smile will light up your face and create a glow no makeup can accomplish – but makeup will give you a polished look that no smile can create or prolong!

Want to add a 'pop' to your eye makeup?  Consider false eye lashes.  A quality pair of lashes – not too long (no spider lashes!) or too thick – may not make too big a difference to your look "in person", but could make a difference to your appearance in the photographs!

Not sure of the look you want: ask your makeup artist for a trial beauty session; this session is not just for the bride!  Want to know more about a trial beauty session read my article: http:://yochieisner.blogspot.co.il/p/pre-wedding-trial-beauty-session.html

Now we need to talk about the why you don't want to wear makeup and many times that comes from a deeper place.  I truly believe every woman is born with a G-D given right to wear makeup, enjoy wearing makeup and a right to WANT to wear makeup.  I really feel that some women just feel they don't deserve to feel good about themselves or they don’t want people to think they are selfish or vain.  They feel that this is their daughter's/son's day and that the spot light should not be on them.  Or they are too old to bother with makeup or that they are "too far gone" and no amount of makeup can help them or why bother.  I am here to tell you - you could not be more wrong!

You deserve to feel good about yourself, to look into the mirror and not cringe, so that when you look into the camera lens you will not cringe, nor should you cringe when you see the photos.  And you certainly don't want your kids to cringe when they see the photos.

Like shoes, it doesn't matter if you feel overweight, poor, unhappy at work, unhappy in other areas of your life, your face can help make you feel good about yourself.  This is not silliness or selfishness, this is about feeling good about yourself, looking good and succeeding all bundled together into one package.  And let me tell you something, the photographer will treat you better and kinder and your kids will feel better as well! 

If your best friend won't tell you, then let me, YOU HAVE TO WEAR MAKEUP.  

Not happy about your hair?  Think about hair extensions or a less-expensive synthetic wig.  Not happy about your dress or your dress size?  Talk to a stylist and I work with the best Wendy Lehmann!  BUT, let the Kallah Whisperer tell you, if you feel good about your makeup and hair, you will stand taller, look thinner and make better pictures for your kids and grandkids.  

Oh now I brought out the big guns!  Imagine: your grandkids will one day look at the wedding pictures of their parents and see you there and they will say (say it with me) "what a sexy young grandmother I have".  Now, make that appointment with the makeup artist and hairstylist, you know you deserve it!

For more information on this topic and to arrange a bridal beauty consultation or bridal beauty trial session please contact me today.  Visit my site  www.thekallahwhisperer.com 


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PLACE CARDS ANYONE? AND WHAT IS A "RESERVEE" TABLE?

While in the States the best dressed weddings may have both Escort Cards and Place Cards - don't worry ladies, I will explain both terms in just a minute - in Israel we are happy with just Place Cards! Or at least what we call Place Cards.   

  
Unless you are planning the next Belz wedding, Place Cards are not just a 'nice-to-have' wedding enhancement; I believe they are a courtesy you show your guests. 

First off, what is the difference between Escort Cards and Place Cards?  Simply put, Escort Cards are the personalized name cards guests should find on a table in the entrance to the Hall.  These cards indicate the guest's name and their dinner table number.  They are usually set up in rows in alphabetical order either by last or first name. (Yes, I have seen it arranged according to first name.  I disagree with it, but I will live with it if I have to.)

Place Cards, on the other hand, are found on the dinner tables and they indicate the guest's specific seat.  I think Place Cards are overkill and totally unnecessary in the world of Israeli Wedding Halls.  Most Halls set up the venue, especially the dining tables, only an hour or two before the wedding (Kabalat Panim) is scheduled to begin.  There is simply not enough time to place these cards and then double-check that they are ALL positioned correctly.

If a table number is misplaced it can be changed, but changing around the cards of a 10-or 12-seat table and then checking separate seating cards for 150, 200 or 400 or more guests is just absurd.  These cards will add more pressure and create more problems than it was ever meant to solve.

Wedding business is BIG business here in Israel.  Weddings in Israel have become big, expensive productions and I would have thought that by now ALL Wedding Halls would provide Escort Cards (in Israel we call them Place Cards and I will continue to use this term as well), but they do not.  Thankfully this is one item that you or your friends or your family can create as an easy and cheap DIY project!

While you are creating these Place Cards, don't forget to create RESERVED table cards for the band and photographer (they can usually sit at the same table), Family of the chatan, Family of the Kallah and for Meshanchim, if you are having this arrangement.  Some weddings also have one or two tables simply listed a Friends of the Kallah and Friends of the Chatan, as these guests may come and go at different times.
 
Reserving a table for a group such as "friends of" can be very cost effective, especially if these friends may only stay for part of the celebration.  This arrangement is especially worthwhile when the bride and/or groom are relatively young and their friends tend to arrive and leave in droves depending on school, army and baby schedules.  

This Reserve table arrangement enables you to seat these groups at one or two tables and will alleviate the need to 'open' a "reservee" table for just a few guests.  

An explanation of the Reservee table concept:  The "reservee" table concept enables the Hall to set up a definite number of tables for guests while reserving anywhere between one to three tables that will ONLY be opened in the event that "unexpected" guests arrive. The idea is that of the 100% of guests who RSVP they are attending, some 5-10% DO NOT attend at the last minute.  Therefore, if you have a guest list of say 100 attendees, you can tell the Hall to set up for 80, for which you will have to pay for 80 meals and one reservee table that will only be opened if some of the 5-10 percentile (="unexpected guests") actually show up.  The rule is simple: once a table is opened you pay for all the seats on that table – whether there are bodies sitting on the seats and eating or not. 

If you do not have a Wedding Planner helping you on the night of the wedding, then appoint someone to observe what is going on vis-à-vis the tables and ensure that a) reservee tables are not opened up without reason and your permission (!) and that b) guests are not mistakenly sitting at these tables – as this will COST YOU!


Here are some formal place cards I have designed, repeating themes found on the wedding invitations:




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A special occasion hairstyle you can create at home! The Starlet Look.

THE PERFECT STYLE FOR...

One of my favorite hairstyles for any occasion is a remake of the classic 40s and 50s hairstyle – the starlet look - soft, full, open curls.  This style is perfect for hair that is shoulder till just below the shoulder blades length. 

Trying to create this style with hair shorter than shoulder length, will simply create a look that is somewhere between Shirley Temple (boy am I dating myself) and a sad 70s afro; as the hair will not have the weight to hold the curls at cheek level.  Hair that is longer than just below your shoulder blades may be too heavy and drag down the curls, making them loosen too quickly and ruin the style.

The starlet look is perfect for girls and women with average to full facial structures. This look may overpower smaller, more delicate faces.  As to long, narrow faces - it is really a tossup. The look could be perfect or it can accentuate an already too narrow face.  You need to try out the look to decide if it is for you.

When deciding if this starlet look is right for you - you must take into consideration your entire look: facial structure, height, hair length, jewelry and clothing.

BEFORE STYLING…

Every good hairstyle begins with a good hair cut. For this style, the best results will be achieved with a good length-appropriate basic hair cut without too many layers. 

If you are working with thick hair - two to three layers will take out the heaviness or bulk from the hair, while "freeing" the hair to curl more naturally.  Cutting too many layers, like too much of any good thing, defeats the purpose of this style; as the layers will ultimately produce thinner curls and a less luxurious look. 

Which brings me to talk about the dreaded Split Ends:  Split ends occur naturally and unnaturally as we brush, comb, style, curl, heat, shampoo, tease, color, blow dry and generally abuse and torture our hair.  As we go about our daily hair routines, the ends of the hair strands, which are the oldest part of the hair, tend to break, tear and split and so are born the dreaded split ends.

No matter what the style (or no style!), split ends are NEVER a pretty sight.  Many gals - especially brides - want long hair; but instead of growing the healthy length of their hair, they let their split ends lengthen.  This may give the impression of long hair, but when creating a style these split ends give an unkempt, messy look to any style.  There is a simple solution to this problem: have your ends trimmed or have, what I like to call, a "micro-trim" once every six to eight weeks (depending how quickly your hair grows).  Do it and don't cry! Twelve centimeters (or five inches) of split ends does not make your hair LOOK longer! Trust me.

LET'S GET STARTED

Now we have our optimal hair length and hair condition, let's finally begin.  In order to create this style, you will need:

  •  A medium to wide tooth comb or a medium to wide tooth brush
  •  Blow dryer (if you are starting with freshly washed, wet hair)
  • Electric curlers (a curling iron is also acceptable, but for this style you will get optimal results with the electric curlers)
  • Large hair clips for sectioning hair
  • A heaping hand-full of hair pins/bobby pins for holding the curl.  The number of pins depends on how thick your hair is and how many curls you create.
  • Hair products: a heat-protecting product; a silicon-based (or argan oil-based) shine-producing product and good quality hairspray. (Find a list of my favorite brand at the end of this article.)

EASY AS 1-2-3-4-5 (you get the point!)

1.    Plug in your electric curlers (optimal heating may take a few minutes, so you should plug the curlers in as soon as you can).

2.    Start with clean hair *.

3.    If you just shampooed your hair, make sure the hair is almost completely dry (towel or blown dry) and combed straight. If you are starting with dry hair, you can shpritz it with a few drops of water (I like to mix this with a drop or two of conditioner), so your hair is not bone dry when you begin to work.

4.    You can apply a very small amount of a heat-protecting product to the hair (working from the hair roots to the hair tips) and comb through the hair with a medium to wide toothed comb or brush. 

Tip: How do you apply the product to your hair and avoid applying too much?  Place a few drops into the palm of your hand, then gently rub the palms of your hands together to distribute the cream/oil on to both palms and then lightly apply the product to your hair, beginning at the hair root and working down to the tips of your hair.

5.     Comb and divide your hair into sections.  The easiest way is to first divide your hair into two large sections – parting your hair down the middle, from the crown of your head straight down through to the nape of your neck (even if you do not want a style with a middle part).

6.    Next divide each of these halves into lengthwise sections, cutting across your head from the nape up to the crown on either side of the middle part.  As each of these sections is divided, clip it. These lengthwise sections should be just thick enough to curl around a curler.  If the sections are too thick they will not curl well or acquire the heat needed to hold the curl.  If the sections are too thin, you will "waste" a curler on only a few strands of hair.

7.    Once your hair is divided and clipped, you can begin to curl.  Beginning at the nape, comb out a section and divide this section into two or three smaller sections of hair, about the length of the curler.  Comb and then curl each smaller section onto a curler.  

Tip: The best way to curl hair around a curler is to place the curler on the tip of the hair (facing up) and roll up the length of the hair until almost the root.  Clip in place with curler clips.

Tip:  If the hair is very long, you can roll the hair sections in the curlers until the curler is level with the ears and not to the root; as curlers rolled high on the head can cause too much lift or height to the hair section. The only problem with not curling until the root is that you may create an ugly crease or line in the hair section where the curler was placed.  Sometimes it is better to curl completely to the root and then later brush the curl down.

Tip: Electric hair curlers usually have several sizes of curlers – larger for longer hair (wider, more open curls) and smaller ones for shorter hair (smaller, tighter curls).  The larger curlers should be used on the longest sections of hair – usually at the back of your head. 

Tip: Many women have shorter, thinner and finer hair along the hair line framing their faces.  We call these hairs 'baby hair' in Hebrew.  You can simply curl these hairs with your fingers and then pin them in place and/or use a curling iron to curl them later in the styling process.

8.    Once all your hair is curled, you can give a light misting of hair spray all over your head.  The hot curlers must be in the hair for at least 30 to 40 minutes and left in until the curlers are completely cool. 

This waiting time is the perfect time to apply makeup.

9.    Once the curlers are completely cooled, you can open the curls CAREFULLY.  Remove the curl clip and, this is very important, slowly uncurl the hair - in the direction of the curl.  Do NOT brush out the curl.  Now re-curl each of these curls in its curl direction and pin in place.  Lightly spray with hair spray.  Do not uncurl until you are ready to finish the style. 

10.   Now you can finish your makeup, get dressed (especially if you are wearing
  a pull-over type top), put on jewelry and so on. 


Tip: If you plan to wear earrings, especially ones that tend to get caught in a brush or comb, you can put these on at the very end of the process, once your hairstyle is COMPLETELY finished.

11. Ready?  Remove the bobby pins and let each curl loose. 
 

12. Now is the time to create the part in your hair – middle, off-center or no part.  You can also create more lift or style the front of your hair with a bit of gel and a gentle tease up in the front or crown.  

13. Next gently brush out each curl with your fingers or with a large tooth comb or brush.

 14. Now is the time to curl the "baby hairs' with a curling iron. You can also use the curling iron to retouch and reshape any other curls.

15. Finish off this look with a few drops of a shine-producing hair product.  This time apply the product from the tips to the roots.  Use the bare minimum amount of product or it will weigh down your hair, lose the curl and make your hair look oily.

16. If you wish, you can finish off the entire look with a light misting of hairspray to help keep the curls through the entire evening.


MY FAVORITE HAIR PRODUCTS FOR THIS STYLE:

·        Hydrating Styling cream by Morrocanoil for pre-styling http://www.moroccanoil.com

·        Elini Argan Oil for post styling shine

·        Natural Formula Moisturizing and Styling Hair Cream to add a bit of "oil" to freshly shampooed hair and also to help with sculpting  http://www.naturalformula.co.il/

·        Schwarzkof's Silhouette Pure Formula invisible hold hairspray for all hairspray needs  http://www.schwarzkopf.com/sk/en/home/hair_styling.html



*I used to ask my brides and other customers to NOT shampoo their hair on the day of the styling.  The reasoning behind this is that shampooing strips the natural oils from the hair and these oils help create and keep the style.  This request used to upset some gals, so now I let each customer shampoo and care for their hair as they wish.  If I need to make the hair a little more "oily", before styling I apply an oil-based hair product to the hair, especially around the roots.